Marriage as a Reflection of the Trinity

The USCCB’s pastoral letter entitled, “Marriage – Love and Life in the Divine Plan” comments on how marriage reflects the life of the Trinity. Let me offer a quote for you to consider:

“First, like the Persons of the Trinity, marriage is a communion of love between co-equal persons, beginning with that between husband and wife and then extending to all members of the family…. This communion of life-giving love is witnessed within the life of the family, where parents and children, brothers and sisters, grandparents and relatives are called to live in loving harmony with one another and to provide mutual support to one another…. These relations among the persons in communion simultaneously distinguish them from one another and unite them to one another…. Therefore, just as the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit are distinctly who they are only in relation to one another, so a man and a woman are distinctly who they are as husband and wife only in relation to one another. At the same time, in a way analogous to the relations among Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, which unites the three persons as one God, the inter-relationship of the husband and wife make them one as a married couple…. The Trinitarian image in marriage and family life can be seen in a second way. Just as the Trinity of persons is a life-giving communion of live both in relationship to one another and to the whole of creation, so a married couple shares in this life-giving communion of love by together procreating children in the conjugal act of love…” (pgs. 36-37)

What a beautiful theology of marriage. I wonder how many of us when we married plumbed the depths of this at all. Those of us who live within the sacrament of marriage over a period of time begin in some way to experience what is being described here, and I suspect even those who live without the benefits of the sacrament, although faithfully and respectfully to each other, also catch a glimpse at least of this Trinitarian experience.

Being a clinical social worker, I see on an almost daily basis the worst of marital situations. It is not easy to appreciate the depth of marital spirituality when faced with relationships marked by abuse, neglect, alcohol and drugs, infidelity or plain simple immaturity of persons. But when I speak to some who have lost their spouses through abandonment, death or betrayal, it can amaze me the depth of the bond they can and do experience.

Let us pray that when we see the face of our husband or wife, we recognize the face of God, and in love completely give ourselves to him or her. In this way of loving, to which we are called, life is born, the Church renewed, and an openness to others in a spirit of hospitality and warmth is created.

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6000 hits in 12 days

This weblog has had approximately 6000 visits in about 12 days time. I will have to get my computer wizard (my son) to give me the breakdown of from where these visits originate, length of time per hit, etc.  

I am pleased whoever is logging on has the opportunity to read what is available here.  

I hope a few minds and hearts are closer to God because of it.

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Retirement for Deacons? Not Usually!

I ran across a posting on Deacon Greg Kandra’s blog (www.blog.beliefnet.com/deaconsbench/) about Deacon Lou Weitzel, 90 years of age, from the diocese of Lansing, Michigan, who is going strong.

I hope to have the same energy Deacon Lou has when I am that age. It is a wonderful vocation.

God bless him.

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Quote for the Day

“Impartiality is a pompous name for indifference, which is an elegant name for ignorance.” — G.K. Chesterton, The Speaker, 12-15-1900

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Quote for the Day

“If we want to profit by our reading about God and His saints we must read with reverence. We must appreciate.” — Ven. Solanus Casey, OFM Cap.

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The Call to Celibacy

Celibacy is a special vocation to live life without sexual intercourse and to integrate one’s sexuality completely into one’s life — into all that one does and says.

All of us are called to live an integrated life, expressing our masculinity or femininity in who we are as human persons, but so often we make the error of thinking that only priests and bishops, monks and nuns are called to celibacy. It is thought of as a “religious vocation.”

We make another error, I think, when we fail to see that all of us are called to integrate our sexuality into all we do as men or women, as masculine or feminine, when we compartmentalize our sexuality from our daily lives.

Not only are priests, bishops and religious called to celibacy but so too are single men and women. Their’s is a special vocation.

All our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters are called by God to celibacy and a healthy integration of their sexuality into their lives and relationships. God gives them a special vocation, and special graces. Do we treat them as people in that way? Do we recognize their struggle to express their masculinity or femininity in a healthy celibate way, a special struggle, a difficult one, and for so many a silent one?

As anyone knows who tries to live a chaste life — celibate or married — it is not easy. Our sexuality touches our core. To integrate it completely into who we are is a journey of faith and a journey into our minds, hearts and bodies.

Let us pray for all our brothers and sisters called to the celibate state of life. Let us pray for all of us married folk who together with them are called to holiness of life which includes a healthy regard for our sexuality and its integration into our whole lives.

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What the Bishops Have Learned From Clergy Sexual Abuse

I’d like to refer you to an interesting article published in the May 10, 2010 edition of America, the national Catholic weekly of the Jesuits. It is entitled, “Twelve Things the Bishops Have Learned from the Clergy Sexual Abuse Crisis.” The article is written by Bishop Blase Cupich of Rapid City, South Dakota.  He is the chairman of the Committee for Child and Youth Protection for the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops.

To read the entire article, log on to: America Magazine.

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Ministry to the Dying

I recently and unexpectedly attended to a dying man.

As a deacon, my role is to bring Viaticum, to arrange for a priest to hear the person’s confession and to anoint him, and then to be present in person and in prayer.

It is a privilege to be present during the last hours of someone’s life and to offer a prayer and a blessing. Most of us don’t want to think about that phase of life. We feel ill-prepared for it. We fear it. It is though a time of privilege, a time when a person becomes very much alone with himself and his God, yet needs the presence of the Church and the immediate family.

I am amazed at the power of the Eucharist in times like this. The peace that our Lord in his Eucharistic presence brings to a believer. How we who are ordained also become Christ in a different way.

Something sacred is seen in a good death. I thank God I could witness it last week, and be Jesus the Servant for this man one last time.

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Quote for the Day

“The Lord be with you always and be you with Him always and in every place.” — St. Clare of Assisi

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Pope Benedict XVI on the New Evangelization

The following is an excerpt from the Pope’s homily in Portugal recently. 

“This is the mandate whose faithful fulfillment ‘must follow the road Christ himself walked, a way of poverty and obedience, of service and of self-sacrifice even unto death, a death from which he emerged victorious by his resurrection’ (Ad Gentes, 5). Yes! We are called to serve the humanity of our own time, trusting in Jesus alone, letting ourselves be enlightened by his word: ‘You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you that you that you should go and bear fruit and that your fruit should abide’ (Jn 15: 16). How much time we have lost, how much work has been set back, on account of our lack of attention to  this point! Everything is to be defined starting with Christ,as far as the origins and effectiveness of mission is concerned: we receive mission always from Christ, who has made known to us what he has heard from his Father, and we are appointed to mission through the Spirit, in the Church. Like the Church herself, which is the work of Christ and his Spirit, it is a question of renewing the face of the earth starting with God, God always and alone.”

Yes, isn’t it true.  God alone is the starting point for all we do. Everything is defined by starting with Jesus who reveals the Father to us in the power of the Holy Spirit.

To read the entire homily, log on to: www.oecumene.radiovaticana.org/en1/Articolo.asp?c=392808

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Quote for the Day

I want to thank The Ironic Catholic for this quote from Bishop Fulton J. Sheen.

“There are not over 100 people that hate the Catholic Church, there are millions however, who hate what they wrongly believe to be the Catholic Church – which is of course, quite a different thing.” 

See original post at: www.ironiccatholic.com

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All Done — 2010 Cannon Ball Awards

Well, the voting is over.  I think Catholic Faith and Reflections came in second, although I haven’t seen the official results.  We were 8 votes ahead later last night.

Although we didn’t win outright, I did accomplish what I had set out to do after having been nominated by Chiara, namely, to make this blog more widely known to the entire Catholic community, and perhaps to reach out to readers who will follow and comment on this weblog in the future.

Catholic Faith and Reflections is a part of my diaconal ministry. A form of spreading the Good News, hopefully. The success of this will depend on me being able to post intelligently and in faithfully about things that matter to our Catholic faith and your daily lives. The success of this ministry will also depend upon you, the readers, and what you may have to offer all of us in our  journey of faith.

Of course, ultimately, God’s will will be done as he sees fit to use this means of  communication and evangelizaton.

Thanks to everyone who voted in the Cannon Ball Awards.  I appreciate the outpouring of support.  The winner of the Best Under Appreciated Blog played the game well, and shrewdly. 

Congratulations to the winner.

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St. Gregory of Nyssa on Church Unity

St. Gregory in today’s Office of Readings has some beautiful words on the unity of faith in the Christian community. Here is an excerpt (my translation from the Italian text I use):

“But among all the words that he (Jesus) speaks and all the graces that he bestows, there is one that is the greatest of all and brings together all the others. It is with these words that Christ admonishes his disciples to always find themselves united in the answers to questions and in their evaluations as to what is good to do; to experience themselves united in one heart and one spirit and to esteem this unity as the one good; to bind themselves in the unity of the Holy Spirit with the bond of peace; to build one body and one spirit; to work together with one calling, animated by the same hope….. The bond of this unity is authentic glory.” — St. Gregory of Nyssa, “Homily on the Canticle of Canticles”; Hom. 15; PG 44, 1115-1118

One of the things I admired about Pope John Paul II was his untiring efforts toward reconciliation between the Churches,  especially between the Catholic Church and the Orthodox Churches.  But also the efforts he made to reach out to our Jewish brothers and sisters, and to the Protestant communities.

It seems to me though that most of the hard work of bringing back together into one flock of Christ all people who call Jesus the Son of God will be done at the local level. Perhaps even at the level of our own families. Our Holy Father has an indispensable role as the successor of Peter and the Vicar of Christ on earth. He leads and enters into aspects of this only he can enter in communion with the other bishops of the world. We the People of God will do most of the legwork. 

For we are the face of Christ in the immediacy of the human condition to our neighbor next door.

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110,000 Visits to this Blog

Over 110,000 visits have been made to this weblog since its beginning a couple of years ago. Thank you all for your interest in what is printed here, and especialy for your continued faith in Christ and his Church.

(Yes, I know the counter says about 11,000 visits. It was accidently reset to zero when it reached 100,000 a few weeks ago!)

Blessings on all of you.

Deacon Bob

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FINAL DAY — Cannon Ball Voting

Well, it is almost over.  Today is the last day of voting. I am for all practical purposes in second place and have to get 80+ votes today to win. We can do it!! VOTE NOW.

Go to: www.thecrescat.blogspot.com and click on the stain glass like 2010 Cannon Ball  Awards icon on the upper right of the page. This will take you to the voting page.  Scroll down to the category, “Best Under Appreciated Blog” and look for Catholic Faith and Reflections.  Click on the bullet next to it, then scroll down to the bottom of that category only and click on “vote.”

Thanks to all of you who have supported me in this effort!  God bless…

Deacon Bob

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